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      <title>Things I Wish I Had</title>
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      <pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2026 15:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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        &lt;p&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ll group them up, but none of these are &amp;ldquo;spec&amp;rdquo; quality thoughts or anything. I just want these to exist. Hit me up on some messenger or whatever if you know of one that I don&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;Unrelated to anything, I reach for the word musing too much. Is it too late to make a resolution to be slightly less pretentious?&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;h2 id=&#34;personal-dashboard&#34;&gt;personal dashboard&lt;/h2&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;I know that there are a few of these out there, and maybe I just need to try harder into looking at configuring them. I want something that I can easily host that lets me have multiple profiles (me, family members), a public facing page for family level notifications / calendar entries, and then separate personal pages. Something that would make for a really good home page of a browser. I know the APIs of a lot of things have fallen apart and that not nearly as many things as I&amp;rsquo;d like support RSS anymore, but I feel like at a glance email counts, calendar appointments, to do deadlines, new notifications on different platforms, and maybe the ability to set some quick link tiles would be the real goal here.&lt;/p&gt;    
        
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      <title>Small theme tweaks, ideas</title>
      <link>https://4nm.us/posts/2024-09-19-site-update/</link>
      <pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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        &lt;p&gt;Consider this a changelog &amp;ndash; since the main social media I use is going away, well, I figured I should fix the place up a bit more.&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;ol&gt;&#xA;&lt;li&gt;Added &lt;code&gt;:empty&lt;/code&gt; blockquote handling to cover pages without a description.&lt;/li&gt;&#xA;&lt;li&gt;Added &lt;code&gt;aria-label&lt;/code&gt; to the external links, because I &amp;hellip; honestly can&amp;rsquo;t believe I forgot, considering how much I focus on doing that right at work. It was even on the RSS link already, so I&amp;rsquo;m not sure how I missed it.&lt;/li&gt;&#xA;&lt;/ol&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m considering making use of some of the new details accordion element capabilities, but I would like this site to stay as Javascript-free as possible. As far as my view is concerned, it&amp;rsquo;s a collection of Markdown files, a few basic HTML templates, and a css file.&lt;/p&gt;    
        
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      <title>August 2024: Life and links</title>
      <link>https://4nm.us/posts/2024-08-11-updates/</link>
      <pubDate>Sun, 11 Aug 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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              <category>manga</category>
          
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              <category>final fantasy xiv</category>
          
      
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        &lt;p&gt;Well. So, that whole &amp;ldquo;my friend died&amp;rdquo; thing&amp;hellip; kind of put me into more of a daze than I expected, especially as my cat&amp;rsquo;s health declined and she passed away recently as well. Oddly enough (if you&amp;rsquo;ve played through it this will make sense maybe), Dawntrail&amp;hellip; kinda helped with digging out of the hole from that. Good expansion, it has some flaws (I played Astrologian), but the encounters are stunning. Love the characters and setting.&lt;/p&gt;    
        
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      <title>December 2023: Life and links</title>
      <link>https://4nm.us/posts/2023-12-02-updates/</link>
      <pubDate>Sat, 02 Dec 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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              <category>generative ai</category>
          
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        &lt;p&gt;Been a minute, hasn&amp;rsquo;t it? I&amp;rsquo;m going ahead and putting out the RSS guide, which has been sitting 95% done for ages. I hope it&amp;rsquo;s helpful to someone. Health&amp;rsquo;s been a bit wonky, been busy with work, so on, so forth. A friend died, which&amp;hellip; I&amp;rsquo;m going to be honest, everything&amp;rsquo;s a bit of a blur in the aftermath of that, which is why this is actually going live&amp;hellip; quite a while after I wrote it. We started playing Final Fantasy XI as a friend group in addition to XIV, a game I&amp;rsquo;ve missed dearly. I&amp;rsquo;ve done a lot of informal writing about why I think it works so well, and I should collect that and post it here, which I&amp;rsquo;ll probably get around to&amp;hellip;&lt;/p&gt;    
        
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      <title>New theme!</title>
      <link>https://4nm.us/posts/2023-new-theme/</link>
      <pubDate>Wed, 05 Jul 2023 15:55:31 -0700</pubDate>
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              <category>css</category>
          
              <category>hugo</category>
          
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              <category>plans</category>
          
              <category>rss</category>
          
      
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        &lt;p&gt;Look! It&amp;rsquo;s a new theme! And deranged rambling in the description!&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m wanting to take a bit more of an active role in posting things to here, which I know I&amp;rsquo;ve said many a time when social media wasn&amp;rsquo;t on fire, but that was then and this is the hellscape of the enshittification era. I&amp;rsquo;ve added a &amp;ldquo;Sources&amp;rdquo; tab for things that I rely on for information and entertainment, though it&amp;rsquo;s not an &lt;em&gt;exact&lt;/em&gt; copy of my OPML on Newsblur. I also went through and put a bunch of my Youtube follows into Newsblur, so that I could actually follow them! It turns out I&amp;rsquo;d been using social media as a way to get notified of lower volume channels actually updating, and, perhaps shocking no one, that means that their uploads would get completely drowned out in a flood of all the shorts that everyone uploads now. Sigh.&lt;/p&gt;    
        
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      <title>Still alive, need to write things</title>
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      <pubDate>Sat, 01 Jul 2023 13:55:31 -0700</pubDate>
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        &lt;p&gt;Okay, so, anyway. Sure didn&amp;rsquo;t see every single major platform exploding in the last year, but here we are. Geez, even having to move some of my stuff to a different registrar, seriously, didn&amp;rsquo;t expect that one.&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;At some point in the not too distant future I suppose I&amp;rsquo;ll be updating social media links, and I&amp;rsquo;m also going to put together actual descriptions on how to run a static site generator and maybe something about RSS as well. I&amp;rsquo;ve had a good RSS post in the past, so I should be able to just update that&amp;hellip;&lt;/p&gt;    
        
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      <title>Life in 2020...</title>
      <link>https://4nm.us/posts/2020-05-mid-year-update/</link>
      <pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2020 11:19:31 -0800</pubDate>
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        &lt;p&gt;So it goes something like this.&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;blockquote&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;me, end of last year: I&amp;rsquo;ll try to write more this year.&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;2020: has a global pandemic&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;me: has a hard drive failure that causes frustrating data loss of my most backed up drive and makes getting a replacement drive far more difficult than it should be&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;me: &amp;hellip; oh come on!&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;Whew.&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;Basically, I didn&amp;rsquo;t have one of my mass storage drives backed up because &amp;ldquo;everything on it is in cloud storage&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; which it turns out isn&amp;rsquo;t a strategy that works when you forget to commit a post or two to your repo, don&amp;rsquo;t actually have all of your game saves sync&amp;rsquo;d to cloud storage, and a few other frustrating corner cases. End result, I&amp;rsquo;ve finally taken the plunge and made a Backblaze account since their terms seem to be the most favorable for what I need, the cost is reasonable, and thanks to symmetric gigabit internet, backup times weren&amp;rsquo;t absolutely horrible on more than 3 TB of data. My replacement drive is 8TB, and it&amp;rsquo;ll get mirrored eventually, but until then, I&amp;rsquo;m at 13TB usable in my main machine compared to the prior 8TB total.&lt;/p&gt;    
        
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      <title>mid-2018 update</title>
      <link>https://4nm.us/posts/2018-mid-year-update/</link>
      <pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2018 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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        &lt;p&gt;Just a quick update on things since I&amp;rsquo;ve been a bit sparse on the posts. Work and other life things have been eating up most of my time (in ways that I can&amp;rsquo;t really publicly write about), but there&amp;rsquo;s been a few things worth an update.&lt;/p&gt;&#xA;&lt;p&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ve (as of this week) got a 500 day streak on Duolingo. I&amp;rsquo;m feeling more and more comfortable with Esperanto, I do need to get back to working on my Spanish, and I would also like to get back into the process of picking up Japanese and Swedish. I suppose a &amp;ldquo;better&amp;rdquo; fourth language to pick up would be German, though my understanding is that wouldn&amp;rsquo;t be that difficult coming from English and Esperanto.&lt;/p&gt;    
        
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